The Shadows of Tradition: When Jokes Turn Toxic in the Halls of Privilege

Abang Edwin Syarif Agustin
3 min readFeb 21, 2024
Photo by Jerry Zhang on Unsplash

The whispers began in hushed tones, then exploded across social media: a group of students from a prestigious private school, children of celebrities no less, stood accused of bullying. But the story went deeper. This wasn’t a single incident, but a chilling echo of a “tradition” passed down like a dark inheritance — seniors targeting juniors, year after year.

It’s a grim reality, and one that begs the question: how does a harmless joke morph into a toxic ritual, leaving its victims feeling ostracized and afraid? The answer, like the hallways of any school, is complex and multifaceted.

Imagine a group of teenagers, navigating the treacherous terrain of social hierarchies. Seniors, perched atop the pyramid, wield a certain power, and sometimes, that power manifests in the form of “harmless” teasing. But jokes, like landmines, can detonate unexpectedly, leaving craters of hurt in their wake.

The impact, not the intent, matters most. A joke that lands on someone’s insecurities, their appearance, their beliefs — it becomes a weapon, disguised as humor. And when it’s repeated, tolerated, even encouraged, it weaves itself into the fabric of the school culture, a chilling “tradition” passed down like a poisoned chalice.

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Abang Edwin Syarif Agustin
Abang Edwin Syarif Agustin

Written by Abang Edwin Syarif Agustin

Observer, Content Creator, Blogger (Obviously), Ghostwriter, Design Thinker, Trainer and also Lecturer for Product Design Dept at Podomoro University

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